Short Comings
For the longest time, I convey tried to solve people's problems. Whenever someone comes to live on alongside their 'issues' or 'dramas' inward life, you tin post away trust me to convey a practical in addition to totally-doable advice. And I am non afraid of giving it, specially since they came to live on inward the fist place.
But truth of the affair is that my 'logical' advice ever falls on deaf ears in addition to people who come upwards alongside their problems never pay whatever head to it. What's most frustrating is to meet them getting wound in addition to used past times others in addition to hearing them bitch well-nigh it, in addition to hence repeat myself similar a broken tape - UP UNTIL NOW!!! I late (about a twelvemonth ago!) realized that these people are non looking for a solution. Sure they shape their sentences similar they are looking for a agency out, but inward reality they are not. All they are doing is WHINE. They come upwards to me because they "want" to expire that someone I am shout out for them to become, but they are incapable of taking those actions. They but desire to hear me laissez passer on them an advice. Somewhere deep downward they believe they volition larn their agency out of their dramas 1 24-hour interval but at in 1 lawsuit nosotros all know - it ain't gonna happen!
So what produce I produce at in 1 lawsuit when they come upwards bitch'n well-nigh their lives? I hear patiently, nod-along everything they say, in addition to concur alongside them how their province of affairs absolutely sucks but offering NO advice inward return. They larn their troubles off their breast in addition to I larn to hold my sanity past times non involving myself inward their unsolvable issues. Win-Win!
And why am I telling y'all, all this? Absolutely no reason. Why produce you fifty-fifty bother reading my blabber tch.tch :P
First fourth dimension wearing shorts on the weblog this year!
Shorts - GAP [12'] Previously worn here, here, in addition to here
Boots - ASOS [10'] Previously worn here
On my lips - Cardinal Plume (178) via L'Oreal ColorRiche
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