Indian Women

Recently, i of my readers, Radha, shared this article past times Chetan Bhagat amongst me, which got me thinking nearly around other post service which has been inward my drafts for a long time. Who else thinks its nearly fourth dimension I got working on the posts I lead hold inward drafts earlier coming upwards amongst novel ones? I digress ... So where was I? ... O.Ya! Chetan Bhagat ... so hither are my thoughts, non based on the same premises (stress level) but valuable nonetheless. At to the lowest degree I mean value so.

I cannot tell y'all how many women/girls claim to desire to endure independent together with so produce non produce anything constructive nearly it. Personally, I believe the minute most of import thing for whatever adult woman should endure - fiscal independence, start beingness - gratis thinking! One cannot always really endure independent until they are financially theme upon father, brother, hubby or son. Probably till a decade agone Indian monastic tell didn't order many options for women to accomplish fiscal independence. But today, that is non the case. It is non the thing of whether y'all "need" to brand a living, it is a thing of that y'all "should" desire to brand a living together with endure able to back upwards ALL your needs (and wants) from a drinking glass of H2O to owning a house. Until y'all are theme on a human for your good being, no thing how differently y'all mean value from him, y'all would never endure able to convey a footstep to brand a alter or difference. Food, clothe together with shelter are, afterward all, the basic necessities together with till y'all know y'all tin comprehend them, y'all volition never endure able to intermission the shackles of dependency.

It is slow to larn bogged downwards past times luxuries together with convey everything for granted, till the 24-hour interval comes when y'all realize that y'all never took a footstep to discovery your ain identity. And forthwith its likewise late. For around strange argue our monastic tell idolizes the 'stay-at-home-mom/wife'. It is similar they are making a grave sacrifice for their menage unit of measurement together with thus should endure given the highest condition inward monastic tell ... but only inward words! Thankfully, inward today's times they don't lead hold to sacrifice. The sooner women realize that, the faster our monastic tell volition progress. I would fifty-fifty larn ahead together with say, produce non hold off your husband/father to shower y'all amongst presents, endure capable plenty to purchase them for yourselves together with may endure shower them amongst presents instead (if they care for y'all right!). We nation nosotros desire the equality of the sexes but a certainly segment of women inward monastic tell want to endure treated similar royalty (by men) all the time.

... And the other segment of women wants to endure the martyrs, the ones who volition endeavor together with endure perfectionists together with juggle everything together with kill themselves inward the process. Quit trying to endure perfect. It is never going to happen. You don't lead hold to endure the best wife, best mother, or the best daughter. As long every bit y'all are beingness yourself together with trying your best, it is enough. Just similar all the men inward your life, y'all likewise lead hold i life together with at the cease of this all ... at that spot is no laurels for beingness perfect. There is however, the satisfaction of having lived your life to the fullest, if y'all lead hold that y'all are flawed.

So what am I maxim here? I am maxim that Indian women (myself included) involve to introspect together with endure the alter they desire to run into inward the Indian society. I am maxim that never quit your job. Not for anyone. Make your ain money. Save. Save. Save. Enough to comprehend all your expenses for at to the lowest degree half dozen months, for the worst illustration scenario. Treat men equal to you. Pay one-half the neb on your date. Open the door for them. Don't hold off them to pass their difficult earned coin on you. Why should they? You wouldn't. Would you?

... And forthwith keeping amongst the theme of the post, I merely hap to endure wearing an Indian(ized) outfit final Friday. No argue what-so-ever (: