Why Ane Don't Similar People

Recently I was having a conversation virtually people amongst someone ... commonly nosotros accept mutual views together with opinions virtually materials together with people. She is a bully listener together with e'er laughs at my sarcasm which tells me she gets me. So during this i specific conversation when I mentioned (again) how I don't similar people, she sincerely asked me, " ... only y'all must similar some people?" To which I responded, "Of course! I similar my friends together with describe of piece of occupation solid unit of measurement ... most of the time. Ha!" ... together with and then went on to elaborate together with percentage who together with what kinda-people I like. At that exact minute I decided this makes for a spider web log post. Hence, hither nosotros are ... 

I realize that past times the virtue of duration of fourth dimension together with childhood bonding I similar most of my friends, together with closed to of my family. However, if I am beingness 100% honest (which I am always being) had I met closed to of them inward my life today, I would likely non similar them every bit much. While I believe people come upwardly into your life for a argue together with non all of them ... inward fact most of them ... are non meant to final a life time. They come, nosotros interact, alter together with grow together together with and then conk our ain ways to pursue our ain paths. Few people stick around. Sometimes because they won't permit y'all go, together with other times because y'all won't permit them conk together with a few times because your paths volition proceed to cross amongst each other's. Those are the relationships that add together spice to life together with brings joy together with sometimes frustration.

Fast frontwards to the current-cynical-me - I actually don't similar most people. The to a greater extent than accurate arguing would travel that I similar most people for small-scale increments of time. But together with then the afterwards does non accept the same effect. Ha! 

I similar people who desire to verbalise virtually ideas versus people. I similar people who exude confidence amongst warmth together with compassion. I similar people who value fourth dimension together with manners together with are fair inward their perspective. I similar people who accept the maturity to heed together with limited opposing views without attacking or offending. I similar people who back upwardly each other. I similar people who are kind, brave, honest together with grateful. 

Everyone is at their best behavior for a brusque menstruum of fourth dimension only if y'all pass to a greater extent than than 24 hours amongst them, their guard starts to conk downward together with their nuances starts getting highlighted. And amongst fourth dimension I accept zero tolerance for drama, whining, unnecessary gossip, superficial talk, pitiable hygiene, ill-mannered behavior, fifty-fifty a hint of sexist or racist talk. One would retrieve that it is non such a harsh criteria only I am surprised that most people accept to a greater extent than than i of the mentioned characteristics. And in that place is no agency that I would similar interact amongst these people. I'd rather pass my whole life amongst books.

N.B. With this postal service dI exercise non not hateful to imply that I accept all of the mentioned qualities. This is the someone I promise to conk i day. I am travel inward progress. And I similar people who likewise are working on themselves instead of believing that they accept it all figured out. 

 
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