I Am Non A Horrible Person

Sunday, January 29, 2017 Add Comment Edit

If yous had met me a couplet of years ago, I would accept told yous upfront, "I am a horrible person! Beware!" I liked giving this disclaimer to anyone who would bother to listen, yous know only to lower their expectations. And to brand certain they are non shocked when they occur to come upwards face-to-face amongst my 'short-comings'.

Today, however, neither produce I come across those same characteristics equally my shortcomings nor produce I retrieve I am a horrible person. So what has changed? Nothing, except my perspective about myself. I accept come upwards to the decision that the argue for why I saw myself equally a horrible mortal has a picayune to produce amongst Indian civilization in addition to a picayune amongst my ain personality (that I was born with). Here goes ...

Just because I reject to produce or tell things, inwards enterprise to delight people, doesn't brand me a horrible person.

Just because I am remove forward, doesn't brand me a horrible person.

Just because I am a go-getter in addition to accept a encephalon of my own, doesn't brand a horrible person.

Just because I produce non agree into a develop mold which people are used to, I am non a horrible person.

Just because I am non diplomatic in addition to produce non saccharide coat my words, doesn't brand me a horrible person.

... the listing tin flaming teach on. Hence proven, I am non a horrible mortal [:P]. I am a fabulous mortal actually, but y'know that from long before.

Bottom-line: I accept realized that I request to terminal selling myself short. I am in addition to accept ever been comfortable inwards my own-skin in addition to thus why fifty-fifty supply a disclaimer, right? If yous similar me, yous similar me. And fifty-fifty if yous don't, doesn't hateful I am a horrible mortal ... just agency yous accept bad gustatory modality inwards people [(;]